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Core Values Alignment Test

Core Values Alignment Test

10 questions

3 minutes

Verified by Vuln Love

This psychological test assesses the alignment of core values between partners in various aspects of their relationship. It explores how each individual considers and integrates the other's perspectives on life goals, moral issues, activities, value conflicts, core beliefs, major decisions, ethics, and family planning. The responses reflect the depth of understanding, respect, and cooperation in navigating differences, ultimately indicating the strength of the couple's alignment in their core values.

Please choose the one option that best applies to you

1. When discussing life goals, you and your partner:

Never consider each other’s perspectives.
Acknowledge them but don’t value them highly.
Sometimes find common ground, sometimes ignore differences.
Often adapt to each other’s values with understanding.
Consistently integrate each other’s values into shared life plans.

2. Regarding moral issues, you:

Openly dismiss your partner’s moral stance.
Barely acknowledge their viewpoint.
Sometimes consider their stance, but prefer your own.
Respect their morals and find ways to coexist.
Deeply honor each other’s moral values and find harmonious solutions.

3. When choosing activities aligned with your beliefs:

You disregard your partner’s interests completely.
You occasionally consider them, but not often.
You try to compromise at times.
You frequently seek joint activities that match both sets of values.
You always strive to find activities that reinforce both of your values.

4. When encountering value conflicts:

You refuse to discuss them.
You become defensive and dismissive.
You discuss them occasionally, but without resolution.
You have respectful discussions to find common ground.
You openly collaborate to understand and integrate differences.

5. If a core belief of your partner differs from yours:

You ridicule it.
You tolerate it but never accept it.
You live with it but avoid the topic.
You acknowledge and respect it, seeking compromise.
You value the diversity it brings to the relationship.

6. When making major life decisions:

You only consider your own core values.
You sometimes mention their values but prioritize yours.
You discuss both sets of values but often lean one way.
You carefully weigh both sets of values equally.
You always seek a solution that respects both of your values.

7. Talking about ethics in everyday life:

You never discuss ethical considerations.
You find these talks awkward and avoid them.
You sometimes touch on ethics, but not deeply.
You engage in meaningful ethical discussions regularly.
You openly share ethical viewpoints, learning from each other’s perspectives.

8. If your partner challenges one of your fundamental values:

You become hostile and refuse to listen.
You brush them off, feeling attacked.
You hear them out but become uneasy.
You consider their viewpoint and discuss it logically.
You invite deeper understanding, seeing it as growth.

9. Aligning values when planning your future family or household:

You impose your values unilaterally.
You rarely consider their values in planning.
You attempt some compromises, but they feel forced.
You find mutually acceptable ways to guide your future.
You wholeheartedly collaborate to ensure both sets of values shape your future.

10. Reflecting on your core beliefs together:

You never reflect together.
You rarely talk about it.
You occasionally share thoughts, but not often.
You have constructive discussions about beliefs now and then.
You regularly reflect on and integrate your values, growing closer.

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