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Family Planning Compatibility Check

Family Planning Compatibility Check

10 questions

3 minutes

Verified by Vuln Love

This psychological test assesses compatibility in family planning by evaluating communication and consideration of each partner's views across various topics, including the desire for children, parenting styles, involvement of extended family, alternative family structures, financial planning, cultural or religious factors, adaptability to changing feelings about family, discussion of family size, and the overall approach to family planning. Participants reflect on their willingness to engage in open dialogue, explore each other's perspectives, and work collaboratively towards a shared vision for their future family.

Please choose the one option that best applies to you

1. When thinking about having children (if at all), you:

Never discuss it or consider partner’s views.
Briefly mention your stance but dismiss theirs.
Talk occasionally but leave decisions unaddressed.
Often discuss expectations and desires regarding children.
Thoroughly explore hopes, concerns, and timelines together.

2. If one of you wants children and the other is unsure:

You ignore their uncertainty and push your view.
You acknowledge their doubt but don’t explore it.
You have a few talks but remain stuck.
You respectfully discuss fears and consider alternatives.
You extensively communicate, seeking common ground or understanding.

3. Regarding parenting styles:

You assume your style will be the default.
You rarely consider their input on parenting approaches.
You sometimes discuss how you might parent, vaguely.
You compare notes and look for compatible strategies.
You actively plan a parenting style blending both perspectives.

4. Handling extended family involvement:

You never consider how in-laws or relatives fit in.
You assert your family’s role and ignore their preferences.
You occasionally discuss boundaries but lack agreement.
You negotiate the level of involvement from both families.
You create a balanced plan respecting both extended families’ roles.

5. On the topic of having pets or alternative family structures:

You don’t acknowledge their preferences at all.
You show little interest in their views on non-traditional families.
You talk occasionally but without consensus.
You consider both perspectives on pets or no children scenarios.
You respect and integrate each other’s family vision, even if non-traditional.

6. Financial planning for a future family:

You ignore financial implications entirely.
You handle money issues solo, not as a family unit.
You discuss costs briefly, but without a plan.
You consider budgeting for children or family needs together.
You thoroughly plan finances to support future family structures.

7. Dealing with cultural or religious factors in family life:

You impose your culture/religion without compromise.
You barely acknowledge their cultural wishes.
You try to respect differences but lack a plan.
You find ways to celebrate both backgrounds.
You integrate cultural/religious elements harmoniously in family traditions.

8. If the idea of having children changes over time:

You never revisit the topic, staying rigid.
You ignore evolving feelings.
You occasionally mention changes but avoid deep talk.
You openly re-evaluate family desires as life progresses.
You continuously adapt plans as perspectives evolve, staying supportive.

9. Discussing family size and spacing (if children are desired):

You decide unilaterally how many and when.
You vaguely mention preferences without real dialogue.
You talk about it but remain non-committal.
You consider each other’s comfort levels and timing needs.
You carefully plan size, timing, and spacing to suit both of you.

10. Overall approach to family planning:

You ignore the topic entirely.
You dictate your stance without regard for theirs.
You acknowledge the topic but remain uncertain.
You have meaningful discussions about potential family paths.
You fully collaborate, respecting both visions for your family’s future.

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