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Household Chores and Responsibilities Allocation Test

Household Chores and Responsibilities Allocation Test

10 questions

3 minutes

Verified by Vuln Love

This psychological test assesses how well partners manage daily household responsibilities and collaborate on chores. It focuses on areas such as the division of tasks, flexibility when one partner is busy, communication about preferences, setting standards for cleanliness, handling larger projects, addressing workload imbalances, introducing new responsibilities, respecting limits, and long-term maintenance planning. Respondents rate their experiences across various aspects of chore management, ranging from uncoordinated approaches to highly collaborative and balanced systems.

Please choose the one option that best applies to you

1. When dividing daily chores:

I do what I want and leave the rest to them.
I acknowledge chores but rarely participate.
We sometimes split tasks, but it feels uneven.
We discuss and try to fairly allocate chores.
We establish a clear, balanced system for sharing responsibilities.

2. Adjusting chores when one partner is busy:

I never help out when they are overwhelmed.
I begrudgingly do a bit more sometimes.
I step in occasionally, but not consistently.
I often take on extra tasks to lighten their load.
I proactively adapt my responsibilities to support them when needed.

3. Discussing preferred ways of doing chores (e.g., folding laundry):

I refuse to consider their preferences.
I acknowledge their way but do it my way anyway.
We try to adjust sometimes, but often clash.
We communicate methods and find acceptable compromises.
We respect each other’s approaches and find a method both can agree on.

4. Setting standards for cleanliness and tidiness:

I impose my standards without flexibility.
I barely consider their comfort level with mess.
We acknowledge differences but rarely resolve them.
We discuss acceptable standards and try to meet in the middle.
We establish mutually agreed standards that satisfy both parties.

5. Handling bigger home projects (repairs, renovations):

I handle major projects without their input.
I inform them but don’t value their suggestions.
We talk about it, but I usually make final decisions alone.
We plan major projects together, seeking each other’s opinion.
We collaborate closely, ensuring big changes reflect both visions.

6. Addressing imbalances in workload over time:

I ignore complaints about imbalance.
I acknowledge them but don’t change.
We talk about it occasionally, but solutions don’t stick.
We strive to fix imbalances when noticed.
We regularly reassess chore distribution to keep it fair.

7. Introducing new chores or responsibilities:

I add tasks without consulting them.
I tell them about new chores but force them through.
We discuss new tasks but implementation is uneven.
We agree on adding tasks and who will handle them.
We thoughtfully negotiate how to incorporate new responsibilities fairly.

8. Respecting each other’s limits (e.g., certain chores they hate):

I force them to do chores they despise.
I ignore their preferences and assign chores at random.
We acknowledge disliked chores but still struggle distributing them.
We try to assign chores based on preferences and dislikes.
We ensure both do tasks that are tolerable and share the unpleasant ones fairly.

9. Long-term home maintenance and planning:

I handle maintenance my way, without their involvement.
I mention plans but rarely follow their suggestions.
We sometimes agree on maintenance but lack a steady plan.
We outline maintenance schedules and share responsibilities accordingly.
We create a long-term household management strategy that feels balanced.

10. Overall approach to household responsibilities:

Totally uncoordinated and one-sided.
Barely cooperative, with minimal discussion.
Some attempts at fairness, but frequent disputes.
Regular efforts to share and balance responsibilities.
A harmonious, well-structured system that respects both parties.

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