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Personal Space and Independence Needs Assessment

Personal Space and Independence Needs Assessment

10 questions

3 minutes

Verified by Vuln Love

This psychological test assesses how well individuals respect personal space and independence within their relationships. It covers various aspects, such as the need for solitude, handling separations, supporting each other’s goals, respecting privacy, and encouraging separate friendships. Respondents indicate their experiences and feelings on a scale from low to high respect for personal independence, helping to evaluate the dynamics of intimacy and autonomy in their relationships.

Please choose the one option that best applies to you

1. Respecting private time:

I never leave them alone, ignoring their need for solitude.
I feel uneasy when they want personal time, but I let it slide.
We occasionally give each other space, but sometimes with tension.
We often respect quiet moments and personal downtime.
We fully encourage and understand each other’s need for personal space.

2. Having separate hobbies or interests:

I demand we share all activities.
I dislike them doing anything without me.
We have separate hobbies, but I sometimes resent it.
We appreciate individual activities outside the relationship.
We celebrate independent interests as a source of personal growth.

3. Handling time apart (trips, work travel):

I never want them to go anywhere without me.
I complain when they travel alone.
We tolerate short separations but feel uneasy.
We accept and support occasional independent travel.
We trust and encourage each other’s solo adventures.

4. Balancing closeness and independence:

I demand constant togetherness.
I feel uneasy when we spend time apart.
We have some balance, but it’s not always smooth.
We find a comfortable ratio of together and alone time.
We excel at balancing intimacy with independence, nurturing both needs.

5. Supporting personal goals that don’t involve the partner:

I discourage them from pursuing solo goals.
I feel threatened by their independent ambitions.
We acknowledge these goals but rarely cheer them on.
We encourage personal achievements outside the relationship.
We fully support each other’s independent dreams, celebrating individual successes.

6. Respecting privacy (journals, personal emails):

I invade their privacy by reading personal messages.
I feel entitled to know everything they do privately.
We have basic respect, but I occasionally push boundaries.
We maintain respectful privacy boundaries.
We strongly uphold each other’s right to personal privacy.

7. Dealing with different comfort levels in independence:

I ignore their need for space if I don’t feel the same way.
I offer minimal accommodation if they differ from me.
We try to acknowledge differences but struggle at times.
We work to understand each other’s comfort levels and adjust.
We fully respect and adapt to differing needs for independence.

8. Reassuring each other during periods of independence:

I never reassure them; they should just deal with it.
I barely reassure them when they worry about distance.
We try to reassure each other, but not consistently.
We often communicate openly to ease concerns.
We consistently provide comfort and understanding, ensuring independence doesn’t mean disconnection.

9. Encouraging separate friendships:

I forbid them from having close friends of their own.
I get jealous if they spend time with friends without me.
We sometimes accept separate friendships but feel uneasy.
We respect and appreciate separate friendships.
We encourage strong individual social bonds, recognizing their importance.

10. Overall approach to personal space and independence:

No respect for independence; constant dependency.
Minimal space, often feeling suffocated.
Some understanding but frequent tension around alone time.
A generally healthy balance of personal freedom and togetherness.
A well-nurtured balance where independence and intimacy coexist harmoniously.

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