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Shared Future Goals Evaluation

Shared Future Goals Evaluation

10 questions

3 minutes

Verified by Vuln Love

This psychological test evaluates how well partners align their future goals across various life domains, including career, living arrangements, finances, family planning, retirement, lifestyle, social connections, and personal development. Respondents indicate their level of collaboration and integration in each area, ranging from no shared vision to a detailed, cohesive plan for their lives together. The test assesses the extent of commitment to discussing and planning a shared future, highlighting the importance of mutual understanding and cooperation in relationship dynamics.

Please choose the one option that best applies to you

1. Discussing plans for the next 5-10 years, you:

Never talk about a shared future at all.
Mention future plans independently without alignment.
Occasionally try to align, but leave details vague.
Regularly discuss and synchronize some long-term objectives.
Openly collaborate on a detailed vision of your future together.

2. When considering career growth over the long term:

You keep your plans secret and separate.
You share plans but show little interest in partner’s career path.
You listen to their ambitions but don’t adjust your own.
You factor both careers into future decisions.
You jointly strategize to ensure both careers thrive together.

3. Regarding the idea of where to live in the future:

You always assume your choice is final.
You tell them your preference but ignore theirs.
You listen but rarely compromise on location.
You discuss options and consider each other’s input.
You collaboratively choose living arrangements that satisfy both.

4. Regarding financial security in the long run:

You refuse to discuss financial futures.
You handle finances independently without mutual goals.
You acknowledge the need but barely plan together.
You create some joint financial objectives.
You establish a clear, shared financial roadmap for your future.

5. Planning family or potential children in the future:

You never consider your partner’s wishes on this topic.
You mention your views but ignore their stance.
You talk about it but remain non-committal.
You openly discuss timelines and desires.
You develop a shared vision for family planning that respects both views.

6. Envisioning your retirement years:

You assume you’ll handle retirement separately.
You don’t consider their wishes for later life.
You occasionally mention shared retirement ideas.
You discuss how you might spend retirement together.
You create a detailed retirement plan reflecting both aspirations.

7. Aligning long-term lifestyle goals (e.g., sustainable living, travel):

You impose your lifestyle dreams unilaterally.
You share your goals but barely listen to theirs.
You acknowledge differences but rarely integrate them.
You find ways to incorporate both sets of goals sometimes.
You consistently merge both visions into one cohesive future path.

8. When thinking about future social connections and community:

You never consider how you’ll interact socially as a couple long-term.
You think about your own social life without their input.
You sometimes discuss future community involvement.
You try to imagine shared networks and mutual friends in future plans.
You collaboratively envision a supportive social environment for both of you.

9. Future educational or personal development goals:

You don’t care about their growth or your shared learning.
You focus solely on your own development.
You occasionally encourage their goals, but don’t integrate them.
You recognize both parties’ educational aims and try to support them.
You plan educational and growth opportunities that uplift both of you.

10. Overall approach to shared future planning:

You have no joint plans at all.
You have some vague ideas but don’t refine them together.
You talk about the future but lack concrete steps.
You outline a rough plan that includes both of you.
You create a detailed, evolving roadmap for a united future.

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